My mobile number is 07**** 232116. I have had that number for
years, at least since 2007 to judge by the names still in its phonebook. A few
months ago, I had to confirm my bank pass-code and couldn’t find it anywhere.
It wasn’t where it should have been and when that happens you might as well
give up looking because it could be literally anywhere. So I had to send off
for a new one which came in the post a few weeks ago. It’s a random six-figure
number: 232116. What are the chances of that? Millions to one, I would have
thought.
Coincidence has been a steady, recurrent theme in my life.
Meeting long-forgotten business colleagues on trains; friends in Motorway
Service Stations at ten o’clock at night [or on one occasion 6.30am in the
morning]. One time, our next-door neighbours were sitting directly in front of
us on a return flight from Rome. Of course these things happen to everyone and
you just have to shake your head and remember the thousands of times when you
didn’t meet up with your sister-in-law,
four-hundred miles from where she should have been.
Here are a couple of others:
I was in south Ayrshire a couple of years ago, driving on
country roads and pulled into a one-pump petrol station. I wasn’t watching what
I was doing and stopped at the wrong side of the pump. I could fill up but
couldn’t see the gauge and couldn’t tell how much I was putting in. Didn’t
matter because I intended to fill the tank. As it was filling I looked about me
and realised there was no Visa sign and I suddenly panicked that I would have
to pay in cash. I thought quickly. I reckoned I had about £20 in cash on me but
couldn’t tell at that point how much I had put in because I couldn’t see the gauge.
I stopped, put the nozzle back in its holster stepped around to see what the gauge
said and it read £20.00. Exactly. Not twenty pounds and a penny, not nineteen
ninety-nine; twenty pounds exactly.
When I took early retirement a few years ago, there was
fairly long period of hand-over to my successors. In my last week I had to hand
over some of my major London clients to Hilary, who was taking them over. In
the event however I had so many things to do in that final week I could only
spare her one day, a Wednesday. We had an eleven am appointment at a clients
office in Holborn and standing at reception when we arrived was a man I had
known well for over twenty years, a competitor in fact called Chris Taylor. We
embraced, shook hands and all that but I just couldn’t get over the fact that
he was there at the same time on the same day that I had chosen to travel down
to London. An hour earlier, a day later . . .
About seven o’clock that evening I was walking through
Putney to my hotel when a man ran up to me, out of breath. ‘Couldn’t believe my
eyes’, he said. ‘couldn’t believe it was you!’ This was Dave Bradshaw, another
old fiend [and a competitor] that I had known even longer than Chris Taylor.
Possibly, probably the only two men in London I would have been happy to meet
up with in my final week. All three of us running cutting-edge businesses in
the same industry. All three of us knowing what it is like to travel to hell
and back. If it weren’t for scalability, it could be called Clustering.
Is there a deeper order, an overarching purpose to the
universe? Or are our lives completely random and events such as these just
lucky accidents which have meaning only if we choose to give it to them?
Or am I simply being self-aggrandising . . . see how
interesting/important I am?